homme fatale

One way to understand Will is to recognize his chamelion attributes. He changes to blend with his surroundings; acting straight - blunting his mannerisms, withdrawing his emotional expression with straight men from whom he seeks approval; displaying more fem with his gay friends when he's at dinner in their house or watching RuPaul (which he dislikes); quiet, sensitive with the straight women he wants to use, listening intently to their girlish conversation, which he told me bores him. He said he found most younger women uninteresting, simple, and repetative. He said that was his reason for prefering to find older women for sex partners.

Will rarely described to me aspects of women he desired or enjoyed. He once told me he doesn't like womens' singing voices -- prefering baritone croners to sopronos -- it was as though little about women appealed to Will other than the sex he could get from them. He found a women in a sundress more appealing than the usual sexy revealing clothes womem use to attract men.

All predators seek to blend in with their environments -- and human sexual predators are harder to spot because of this great social skill of communicating only a reflection of their social evironment. They may be, like Will, attractive and attentive, and socially engaged, but they are responding, which is profoundingly different from revealing, when they converse. When my doctor friend, Frederic, first met Will (over a few games of snooker) he said "I have never spent three hours with someone and know nothing about him". Doctors, like psychologists, are trained in observation of all the available informaion in social encounters. I've always thought that was why his older woman doctor relationship ended after only two or three months -- she did a clinical assessment at the same time as she fucked him with a stapon.

Current work for 'Pocket Money' & Immigration

Will continued to hustle and do erotic massage, even after claiming he would stop once his teaching began to pay.

*** insert discussions from car/hustling/character***

He became very angry with me once, as I took him home from a snooker game, when I pointed out that hustling was his primary sexual expression (especially in terms of frequency), and that he truly enjoyed the work at which he is so well suited.

We had discussed many times the problem that sex work had for his application to immigrate to Canada -- a goal he mentions often. I was never sure why he thought he would not be known to the authorities -- it was a strange idea that one could engage in sex work during his graduate studies and then apply to become a citizen.

I had often told him that on-line is the same as 'in public' in most of what we do, yet it seems he continues to work and has been online and working throughout his time in Canada (see below).

His earliest pictures naked were taken just after he arrived in Montreal, so I had always assumed that hustling was one of the attractions for coming to Concordia and living in Quebec. Will had told me early on how he posed naked often in Oregon for artists and so it was an easy extension to add sex work into naked time for pay. I never got a clear understanding how a 'small town boy' was so skilled and proficient at sex work so quickly and I knew Will would never honestly tell me his story, since it caused him so much abivilence and yet was the secret life he so enjoyed.

Which profile is Will Fech?

This is no small question and I will not try to answer it all here.

Will continues to create new identities and personas on-line, as we see he's now using "Out_there" and "Jock_boy" on Rentmasseur. He liked to use 'Kinky' in his titles, and his names often have subtle jokes; he's 'out' but only 'there' -- and he's neither a 'jock' nor a 'boy', but he almost always is wearing one, especially when he meets clients or does cam shows live (more on that later). His handles are advertising and social criticisms all in one.

***insert pics of all profiles***

The only site I ever mentioned to him that he would not list on was Gay411, though it has many, many hustling profiles. I was not sure why he would not list there, though at the time we discussed it, he did not consider himself gay.

Some time later he went to Gay Pride and walked alone through the events and displays, with crowds of men about.

***More on sadness and mistreatment of old gay men*** He did not like it.

Still online in July 2019

It is unclear why his profiles continue to show then dissappear, then new ones are available with new names. (see below for newest on Scruff) He also must be mindful that

*** more on hustling and power relations / damage to clients ***

I had always suspected that Will would need to find a woman he can use as cover for the work with old men that he enjoys, and to placate his relationships with his family and the various singing/theatrical groups. Being bisexual simply requires sex with a woman and is easily done by those of us who are comfortable with sexual expression.

I expected that he would find one after I told him that, while gay men will tolerate him getting fucked or pegged by old men (or even older women), a woman would not generally be so understanding. I knew this would become a challenge for him, since he had always tried to overcome my impressions of his private life with public portrayals of the opposite.

Wearing a 'beard' for immigration

And the trouble Will might have immigrating to Canada can be handled easily if he marries a woman, since his family would enjoy it and he wouldn't have to 'come out' to them. I told him marrying a man for citizenship was easier to do socially, but his family might not continue to give him money or love. This is a constant dilemma for bisexual men.

Also, with a woman on a gay men sex site like Scruff, he will find many bisexual men who will be willing to pay to play -- and so this is a very easy way to continue his massage business and enjoying his life at the same time.

And note the subtle phrasing, as always, "fantasizes about being with two men" - she needn't even have done it yet.

This is great ad copy from a fine editor...

Clearly, it's working for him.